Geordie Lass & Doc Sass

185. It's not the fight, it's the repair

Welcome to another episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass, where a Geordie and a Canadian explore the fascinating world of relationships.
 
Love Desk: Do opposites attract in your olive love?
Tune in to find out about the surprising Olive Theory.
It's not the fight. It's the repair: Let's focus on the essential topic of conflict resolution in relationships. Geordie Lass and Doc Sass offer insights into the art of repair, emphasising the importance of understanding underlying emotions and unmet needs. They challenge the notion of not going to bed angry, advocating for thoughtful reflection and space when needed.
Question: My partner and I are considering opening our 4-year relationship. We're both curious but nervous. What should we consider before making this decision?
Opening a relationship involves many complexities. This episode thoughtfully explores the considerations, communication, and boundaries necessary for successfully navigating non-monogamy. With humour and empathy, it explores potential pitfalls and the importance of clear intentions and open dialogue.
As Geordie Lass and Doc Sass navigate the intricate dance of love and relationships, tune in for a lively discussion filled with humour, wisdom, and practical advice.
 
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

184. Relationship money red flags

Welcome to another engaging episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass, where we dive deep into the complexities of relationships.
 
Love Desk: A quick IG post about Healthy Relationships - Take a listen to find out more. 
 
Hot Topic: Relationship money red flags
In this episode, we explore the money red flags you might see in your relationship. Our hosts share personal stories and insights into how money might impact your relationship.
Is it time to consider how your financial habits are impacting your relationships? Listen to the tips on how to navigate these potential pitfalls.
Question:
 I need some advice. My husband has been working away for the past few years, so we haven't been living together. He's moved back and I'm really struggling to get used to living with him again. Things like sharing a bed, sharing a space, sharing food and needing to clean more than usual. I'm feeling unable to just sit and relax on my own after work. I'm finding it difficult to adjust and he doesn't understand, which is making me feel even worse. Can you offer any helpful advice?
Another example of how relationships are challenged. With some open and vulnerable conversations, is it time for this couple to reinvent their relationship?
 
Visit us at www.geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

183. Celebrating the difference between you

Join the lively conversation between Geordie Lass and Doc Sass as they delve into the complexities of relationships. Discover how to navigate the ups and downs of love, focusing on the importance of communication, connection, and celebrating differences. Exploring the challenges couples face, from managing everyday life to rekindling the spark after years together. They start of Zen and build the energy as the podcast flows.
Love Desk: Sara’s fiancé is providing the love desk news today, he;s taking his groom duties very responsibilities seriously. 
 
Hot Topic: Celebrating the differences between you
Listen in for practical advice on embracing your partner's uniqueness, balancing life's demands, and finding harmony in your relationship. Consider the expectations you’re measuring your relationship by, something aren’t dealbreakers and once you let go you can make space for what really matters. 
 
Question: I'm not attracted to my partner of 7 years anymore. We've both gained weight and stopped making an effort. Is there any way to rekindle the spark?
Listen in to find out how to address this, as usual it’s multi-layered. 
 
Whether you're dealing with relationship conflicts or simply seeking to strengthen your bond, this episode offers valuable insights and relatable stories to guide you on your journey to a fulfilling partnership.
 
Visit us at www.geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
 

182. It's not what you say ...

Welcome to another engaging episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass, in which our hosts dive deep into the intricate world of relationships. This time, they explore the ever-evolving dynamics of love and engagement and the challenges posed by modern technology.
Love Desk - The over 50's are rocking speed dating in UK  
 
Hot Topic - It's not what you say ...
The episode's hot topic is communication, specifically the impact of tonality in conversations with partners. The hosts candidly share their experiences and insights on how tone can be a hidden weapon in communication, often leading to misunderstandings and emotional turmoil.
 
Question - "My partner is always on their phone when we're together, even during date nights. How do I address this without seeming controlling?"
Finally, the episode addresses a listener's question about dealing with a partner who is constantly on their phone. The hosts offer practical advice on setting boundaries and fostering meaningful connections, even in our tech-saturated world.
 
Tune in to discover how to maintain respect, trust, and vulnerability in your relationships while navigating the digital distractions that can often stand in the way of true connection.
Visit us at www.geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

181. Giving meaning to your relationship

Welcome to the Podcast!
In this heartwarming episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass, our hosts dive into the changing seasons and the comfort of fuzzy socks, while sharing a surprising twist. From unexpected barbecues to the beauty of autumn sunsets, this episode is packed with warmth and excitement.
Love Desk—Today's show is a double hit: defusing arguments before they explode and a surprise as Sara shares news of her recent engagement. 
 
Hot Topic - Giving Meaning to Your Relationship
Saras and Anna explore the importance of finding meaning in relationships. 
 
Question - I'm starting to resent my partner's career success. They just got another promotion while I'm stuck in a dead-end job. How can I overcome these feelings?
 
Tune in for a mix of cozy chats, personal revelations, and practical relationship guidance. Don't miss the momentous news and the heartfelt discussions that follow!
Visit us at www.geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

180. Why love isn't enough

Welcome to another episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass!
 
Join us as we start with tales of an unforgettable Adele concert in Munich, complete with custom-built stages and magical moments that left us in awe.
 
Love Desk: Do opposites really attract
We debunk the myth that opposites attract and explore how shared values and interests are crucial for long-term romance. Find out why aligning on the big ticket items can make all the difference in a relationship.
Hot Topic - Why Love Isn't Enough
We discuss how love, while essential, needs to be paired with grit, determination, and shared goals to sustain a long-term relationship. Learn why being the best partner you can be is the secret to successful relationships.
Question - "My partner of 2 years wants to move in together, but I'm not sure I'm ready. We spend most nights together anyway. How do I approach this conversation?"
Moving in together after two years of dating. How do you approach the conversation when you're not sure you're ready? Tune in for our advice on balancing independence and commitment, and the importance of open communication.
 
Visit us at geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

179. Couples that dream together stay together

Welcome to Geordie Lass and Doc Sass!
Sara is obsessing over Adele at her upcoming concert in a few weeks. She's very excited. 
 
Love Desk: A new game for you to play in your relationship.  
 
Hot Topic: Couples that dream together stay together. 
The girls explore the art of dreaming together and how it strengthens relationships. From sharing hopes and aspirations to addressing concerns about emotional connections outside the partnership, no topic is off-limits. Join us as we delve into the psychology of maintaining a happy, committed relationship and offer practical tips to deepen your bond with your partner.
 
Question: "I've noticed my spouse of 5 years spending a lot of time texting someone from work. They're always smiling at their phone. Should I be concerned?"
This listener's question focuses on the potential pitfalls of a partner's texting habits and how to address them constructively. Tune in for an insightful conversation that promises to leave you with new perspectives on love and connection.
 
Visit us at geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Welcome to Geordie Lass and Doc Sass!
Sara is obsessing over Adele at her upcoming concert in a few weeks. She's very excited. 
 
Love Desk: A new game for you to play in your relationship.  
 
Hot Topic: Couples that dream together stay together. 
The girls explore the art of dreaming together and how it strengthens relationships. From sharing hopes and aspirations to addressing concerns about emotional connections outside the partnership, no topic is off-limits. Join us as we delve into the psychology of maintaining a happy, committed relationship and offer practical tips to deepen your bond with your partner.
 
Question: "I've noticed my spouse of 5 years spending a lot of time texting someone from work. They're always smiling at their phone. Should I be concerned?"
This listener's question focuses on the potential pitfalls of a partner's texting habits and how to address them constructively. Tune in for an insightful conversation that promises to leave you with new perspectives on love and connection.
 
Visit us at geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

178. You can say I do, but it doesn't you can

Welcome to another episode of Geordie Lass and Doc Sass!
Join us as we dive into the vibrant lives of our hosts, Sara and Anna, who live the rural dream in picturesque Greece and navigate unpredictable weather back in the UK. There's never a dull moment, from the beauty of fresh figs to the quirks of rural neighbours.
 
Love Desk: The controversial trend of asking wedding guests to pay for their attendance. How would you feel receiving an RSVP with a credit card payment request? We explore the implications and share our thoughts on this modern-day problem.
 
Hot Topic: You can say I do, but it doesn't you can.
When you say I do, are you thinking about how to make your relationship last a lifetime? It's time to shift some thoughts from the big day to the rest of your life. 
 
Question: "My partner and I have very different love languages - I prefer physical touch, while they value acts of service. How can we bridge this gap?" This week's query comes from a couple struggling to align their love languages—one prefers physical touch while the other values acts of service.
To identify your love language, take the test here. 
 
Please listen to our expert tips on finding harmony and strengthening your relationship.
Don't miss this engaging episode filled with laughter, insights, and a dash of sass!
Visit us at geordielass.com or email us at info@geordielass.com with your thoughts and topic suggestions. Happy listening!
Till next time
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

177. Companionship Vs Partnership

Welcome to another episode where we dive deep into relationships!
This week, we're recording from what feels like a sauna due to the heat, but it’s all worth it to bring you an exciting topic.
 
Love Desk: Ultimate compatibility test – eight essential questions to assess your relationship. From spiritual beliefs to sex drive, we cover it all.
 
Hot Topic: Companionship and partnership.
Can you have one without the other? We explore what it means to truly be in a partnership and the fear blocks that might prevent you from moving from companionship to partnership.
Question: I've been married for 6 years, my car is a 2007 model and needs alot of repair. Me and my husband keep our finances seperate and he earns three times as much as me. I contribute to the mortgage and the bills and then I'm only left with a few hundred dollors each month. He's very private about his money. He just went and bought a $50k car without discussing it with me. Am I wrong for beng resentful towwards him for not helping me with my car?
What happens when one partner earns significantly more but doesn't share the wealth? Tune in to hear our advice on how to address financial imbalances and ensure both partners feel valued and supported.
Get ready for a fruitful conversation that promises to enhance your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner!
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email info@geordielass.com with hot topics or questions about your relationship. All questions are entirely confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

176. AI for companionship

Welcome to the Podcast!
Join us in this lively episode, where our host, fresh from the bustling markets of Athens, shares tales of summer fruits, cheeses, and the simple joys of life in Greece. The conversation turns to travel plans and the bittersweet emotions of attending a daughter's university graduation in Leeds.
 
Love Desk - It's quote time to get you started with a glow. Let's not strive for ideals that aren't there for anyone. 
 
Hot Topic - AI for companionship
What are your thoughts on the impact of AI on companionship and the delicate skills required for human interaction? 
Can we replace humans in the relationship stakes? Is an AI companion enough to fill the space and gap in your life where a partner or deep friendships would typically do this? 
 
Question: "I've been in a relationship with a married man for 18 years. I've just called it off about six months ago. Since then, I've bounced from fling to fling, but there's something wrong with all of them. I'm in my later years, and I want some companionship. I don't know what I'm doing."
They are wrapping up with a heartfelt listener's question about navigating life after an 18-year relationship with a married man. Our hosts provide thoughtful advice on finding genuine companionship and embracing one's unique quirks in the search for love.
Whether you're a jet setter, a parent, or someone seeking meaningful relationships, this episode offers a blend of travel tales, heartfelt discussions, and valuable insights.
 
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email info@geordielass.com with hot topics or questions about your relationship. All questions are entirely confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com