Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Relationship podcast, tackling those often off-limit subjects in relationships. Helping to keep you sane at a time when you feel anything but! Some light relief and hopefully a few golden nuggets to help you make it through the week without resorting to wine via an intravenous drip!
Episodes
Thursday Oct 28, 2021
65. Common relationship fears - rejection!
Thursday Oct 28, 2021
Thursday Oct 28, 2021
Sara feels like you is more human this week and the voice is returning to normal. Anna is seeing lots of patience in her practice with some major colds, it's snot all the way! Sara is forecasting a tough winter .... buckle down and Anna's public health announcement is in full flow.
Relationship correspondent is reporting on a trend of bird nesting divorces ..... it's a new one on us. Take a listen to fid out all about it. Times are potentially changing but the jury is still out if this is the right approach and there could be some tricky times to navigate. The conversation progressing and moves into living together apart ... maybe this is the way forward.
The hot topic for the week is "Common relationship fears - rejection!" there are some divergent thoughts amongst the girls. Anna started right out of the gate with fear of rejection in dating, they discuss if this is just females or males too. Sara had a different take and her thoughts went to rejection when in a relationship it's a big topic that impacts couples often. Attachment styles can play a big part of this.
This week the question being discussed is "I really want kids but my partner doesn't, they already have kids from a previous relationship, help!" this is such a major question this week, there are many scenarios that keep the girls chatting for a while. This is hard shit ..
It's an action packed show! Sara highlights that we can often have different views and perspectives about how the relationship we are in is going. It's not always healthy to be rose tinted. Anna requests that the Facebook/Instagram outage lasts longer and we avoid comparison mode. Sara watches the news for the first time in a while, can we please have some balance and promote some happier good news tales. She is on her soapbox!!!
Till next week!
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
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Sara Liddle
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Anna Stratis
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Thursday Oct 21, 2021
64. Finding purpose with your partner
Thursday Oct 21, 2021
Thursday Oct 21, 2021
Welcome to a fall podcast, the leaves are changing .... it's on its way, although you wouldn't know it with the temperatures now. The girls have a temperature war! Think Sara won that one. Sara is getting used to life without her daughter and the realisation that she won't walk through the door at any moment. She's ready for Christmas already to see her face once again.
Relationship news is a weird one! Sara is feeling her age as she shared this weeks news story, she's struggling to fathom it this week. Anna blows her mind when she shares something equally bizarre, OMG what's happening. Sara is shocked into silence, she has no words, seems like the theatre audience is in agreement. Maybe all filmmakers should aspire to make their audience feel sick. If all of this intrigues you take a listen.
The hot topic is finding purpose with your partner ..... how aligned are you in your relationship, is this a conscious thing for you? This might help to get you closer to a connection with each other. The girls explore where misalignment might occur and how purpose can help you and your relationship? Should you have a mission statement, values purpose? Would know this help you to understand where your clashes are.
Today the question is "I think my wife is still in love with her ex, what should I do?" .............. a nice segway from the hot topic .... Sara's take .... this person chose you ..... but Anna has a different view. Let battle commence!
That was a mental workout for the girls which triggers an issue with Sara about Sudoko and her lost ability! Here's to stretching the mind. Step away from Netflix's, stretching ahead ....
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Oct 14, 2021
63. Is judgement ruining your relationship?
Thursday Oct 14, 2021
Thursday Oct 14, 2021
Sara is husky today, she wishes it was from partying hard but instead it is cold and phlegm less attractive but at least she knows it's not covid following her negative test. She's still trying to function and sharing her husky voice with the world. Anna's has hit the 2 months mark in Toronto ..... wow we can't believe it either.
Relationship new is still flowing, here's a little article called financial freedom Sara was reading whilst travelling on the train. Anna's gets a little bit of financial advice thrown in too!
The hot topic is judgement ruining your relationship? There are so many places judgement can show up in your relationship and the girls shine a light on this in today's podcast. There are so many influences on this, expectations, comparisons, stages of relationships ...... the girls get all out for discussion. Observing your own judgements can be difficult, it's often someone else who points it out to you, ideally, this happens before chaos ensues.
Today I'm a 33-year-old and I don't want kids. I'm thinking about freezing my eggs in case I change my mind, what should I do? Sara is curious about the fear and seed of doubt that's coming up for this listener. The biological body clock is ticking and it is bound to impact, take a listen to find out more and how the girls approach this topic and her Sara flounder in her medical appraisal of the situation.
Ending on a thought-provoking week with some tough homework for Anna, visioning, releasing judgement and making a will, she's gonna be a busy bee!
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Oct 07, 2021
62. What are problem areas to look out for in a relationship?
Thursday Oct 07, 2021
Thursday Oct 07, 2021
Anna is having a moment of reflecting and being present at the moment enjoying life and feeling settled. Plus her bladder is holding up, is this the new barometer for happiness? Sara isn't going to complete but she is celebrating Anna's happiness. If only they could bottle this, bring on the merch! "I'm so happy right now I don't need to pee"
Switching from creative to journalists, four ways to handle jealous feelings in your relationship (a future topic perhaps?) take a listen to find out how to tackle jealously. The love desk is certainly delivering today.
The hot topic is ..... What are problem areas to look for in a relationship, how long do we have? The girls are pouring a glass of something to tackle this one. They don't hold back and delve straight into this topic. They look at choosing your partner as your person and maintaining the connection. There's a flashback to the starship episode (episode 7). And we hit a vital moment as Anna confesses she now sees sex as a secondary issue manifesting from a bigger problem ....... is she really a convert. They finish on kindness, say something nice and stop just stop, not backhanders need.
Today's relationship question is .... I just broke up with my boyfriend, we have a child together and I still love him, The relationship was toxic and abusive, what should I do? Oooucch ... we are feeling the pain and suffering in this question. It is a heavy question filled with sadness that affects many. Listen to the girls perspective on how to get out of this situation.
The podcast is ended on a mind-bending moment ..... a future topic ...... do all relationship problems come back to a lack of self-love.... a challenge for a future day for the girls to debate in the virtual boxing ring.
Sara is prepping for security and as she heads of the island after two years of being in the same place. Anna's pro masks on flights and Sara is worried she's going to return with COIVD, fingers crossed.
Till next week!
Link mentioned in the show to the 30 day Free Kindness Challenge https://www.jointhekindnesschallenge.com/
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 30, 2021
61.Recovering from a major relationship blew up
Thursday Sep 30, 2021
Thursday Sep 30, 2021
Tech challenges have affected the girls today and Anna has the first day nerves ahead. Sara’s feeling life pressures and everything that could go wrong has gone wrong. She’s ready for a moon change.
Relationship correspondence desk ..... is sharing 15 Hollywood celebs that divorced and remarried. It’s no surprise that not all of them stayed married.
The hot topic is recovering from a major relationship blew up ......... the course of true love never did run smoothly! The girls are fully in tune with this hot topic! From shitty intense arguments to dragging stuff out of the closet and using it to further your position. Take a listen and see if any of this resonates with you and how to tackle the elephant in the room. Is it time for you to address the bigger things in your relationship and start to break those patterns? Tune in to find out more, the girls have walked this path before.
The question of the week ..... “My partner never expresses emotions and feelings, he insists nothing is going on, but I don't think it's true” you are right! This is a common situation in relationships. People often struggle to share their emotions and it can be difficult to identify and deal with this. The girls dig deep into this question and explore what else might be going on.
It was a sparkly week the tech may have shut down on the girls but it certainly fired them up. Sara’s out of kilter as the girls needed to change their record time she’s now ready for pj's and bed.
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 23, 2021
60. Is safe sex boring sex?
Thursday Sep 23, 2021
Thursday Sep 23, 2021
Sara’s in full uni prep ready for her daughter heading off. Anna is feeling like she’s missed out on her dickwaffle as she failed to track down the pop up, but Sara’s all over it and has the links in the shownotes for Anna to go dickwaffle hunting.
Love desk ..... is reporting random acts of kindness in your relationship. Tune in to find out why this will benefit your relationship.
The hot topic is safe sex boring sex? Anna’s dog gets vocal in the background. The girls delve deep into this subject. Everything from kinky sex, protection and consent to recreating those heady days of sex in the beginning of your relation. Bring out the innovation if that’s your jam. How far do you go to keep things fresh in the bedroom? It’s a fascinating subjects and the girls stray into so many different topics and discover tere’s a time and place to be thrilled.
The question of the week ..... “My Freind is in a toxic abusive relationship, at one point he even got her arrested, she keeps going back to him which makes it super awkward for BBQs and get together, how do I help her see her worth?”
Wow that’s a tough one, there’s so much in this questions, the girls take deep breathes as they tackle this one. Anna’s in be harsh day .... think she missed the kindness at the start of the podcast .... just saying. There are so many different levels you will identify with some, if not all of this discussion.
That’s it’s for another week, it’s left a lasting impression on the girls. Don’t forget those random acts of kindness for your partner or a friend. And we learn about Sara’s fear of sunflowers, quite a quirk.
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 16, 2021
59. Have you checked out of your marriage?
Thursday Sep 16, 2021
Thursday Sep 16, 2021
Anna is back from her trip visiting her dude, other than the COVID test it went well, we won't mention the cheese smuggling ........... She's walking a thin line! Sara is in a heatwave and doing panic uniform shopping preparing for the kids going back to school. It's a shock to all of us. Parents stay sane.
The relationship desk of love is reporting the baby dust method, this will help you pre-pick the sex of your child. There's a huge following on social media with people signing the praises of the method. Hmmm, there are some concerns amongst the girls. Very conversation provoking this week.
Today's hot topic is have you checked out of your marriage? More common than you might think, it's not something people are fully aware of and honest with themselves. This is a big hot topic! Sara needs a nap after today's hot topic ...
Finally the question this week is "My partner wants to spend a shit load of money on a fancy new car and I just agree, how do we fix this?" Anna immediately thinks of Tesla! This is a great question, tune in to find out what the girls have to say, spoiler alert, the first thing that comes to mind is to go and sort it out yourselves, the girls want no part! Oh and then they strap themselves in and tackle it head on.
A feisty start the week and Sara's off to soak up the last of the sun, but before she goes she shared her crazy dreams, involving bulls and unwanted visitors. Take a listen to find out more!
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
58. What do successful couple do others don’t?
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Sara’s had a little break, she’s well rested after spending time in the garden and some cooking therapy. Anna is another location, again! She’s back in NY in her jet set life, hubby and her are on independent tours for a while. There’s a wee debate on moving house. Never move yourself again ......... you’ll not look back .... unless you are living in crazy town.
Pearls from the love desk ...... in between tech geniusness Sara doesn’t let us down, she’s shares an inspirational story “breaking up was the making of me” ...... tune in to find out more.
This week's hot topic is what do successful couples do that others don’t?
Wouldn’t we all like to know! Anna and Sara discuss a beautiful analogy about burning embers and roaring flames. The girls could talk about this one for a long time ......
Reluctantly they move on to a question “I feel like I’m emotionally babysitting my partner, help!!!” It’s a good one this week.
Anna is off to moving zone ...... she may regret the packing choice soon enough. It was a juicy episode, with lots to unpick and unpack (pardon the pun!)
Good luck with move day Anna, get rested and pack the coffee cups close by! Sara may have lost the plot slightly over her tea choices.
Till next time ......
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
57. Dealing with an attention seeking partner
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
The girls are hanging onto the last days of summer, schools are heading back and fall/autumn feels like it's just around the corner. Sara's daughter is heading off to uni soon and is in party zone mode, heading off to her first nightclub in the next few days!
The love desk is sharing an article about abstinence from sex and the differences between generations. This might not be what you think. Take a listen to find out more ........ including Anna being triggered ....
This week's hot topic the girls are discussing dealing with an attention seeking partner. Sara shares the image that this situation conjures up for her, she has two scenarios to share. I'm sure we all know this type of relationship. There's a great quote from Anna "the phone is always coming from inside the house", it's a multi-level cake and there is a need to dig deeper than the icing. There's a little more than you'll bargain for this week as Anna shares a new waffle (from members only) trend in Toronto ..... you will not believe this, it was worth a podcast hijacking. Here's a link to find out more, maybe you are a local or just intrigued https://www.instagram.com/membersonlywh/
Finally, the question for this episode is "I'm in a relationship and my partner has three kids and I don't like them, what should I do?" There's honest in this question if nothing else!
Sara is refusing to let Anna discuss pumpkin spiced lattes and bring on Autumn/Fall too soon.
Till next time ......
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
56. Reconnecting with your partner when the kids fly the nest
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
Anna is a little more settled now she has a few weeks under her belt in Toronto. Sara is struggling to walk as her exercise routine get's the better of her. The hips ain't moving as they should do. She's also on menopause cleans as she is driving herself crazy overindulging in menopause news.
The love correspondent isn't going to let you down with 10 signs of true intimacy in a relationship. Is your partner fully in tune with you and do you feel you can be the truest self around your partner? Take a listen to find out more.
The hot topic is a goodie reconnecting with your partner when the kids fly the nest, it's a new beginning but also a perfect storm with other changes occurring at the same time. It could be a recipe for disaster, take a listen to find out how best to navigate this.
Sara is about to experience this for real. Anna and Sara are considering extending the break up merchandise to include flying the nest merch!
Here's a link to 36 Questions to deepen your connection - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/open-gently/201310/36-questions-bring-you-closer-together
The question of the week is "Me and my partner moved in together over 2 years ago, recently he's been buying himself so many expensive things and doesn't buy me anything. Is this far?" it's a juicy one this week!
The girls are very passionate this week and slightly obsessed with curly fries!
Till next week!
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com