Relationship podcast, tackling those often off-limit subjects in relationships. Helping to keep you sane at a time when you feel anything but! Some light relief and hopefully a few golden nuggets to help you make it through the week without resorting to wine via an intravenous drip!
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Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Anna's echoing from her empty apartment, she's excited to be there, feeling chilly but she's warm on the inside. Sara's recovering from illness with some Xmas shopping and prep for the festive period.
Love Desk: Christmas-related story, some sadness but evidence that humankind and generosity are around us.
Hot Topic: What would you change about a modern relationship?
Words of wisdom from Anna, choose your own adventure, in a modern relationship you have this in your gift.
The overriding message is to co-create your relationship, it's your path and you get to design a relationship that works for you. Sometimes this level of choice may feel overwhelming, when this arises it's time to get intentional.
Question: "I want to stay with my partner forever, how can I make this happen?"
The girls can't tell if they feel better or worse at the end of this podcast, but that's the rhythm of relationships and life. There were still a few mic drop moments in here which hopefully make you think a little and get more intentional.
Till next time!
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Saturday Dec 23, 2023
Saturday Dec 23, 2023
Sara's just back from Budapest fully fed and still with her man, they survived without an argument. How grown up are they! Anna's moving and it's all up in the air as usual.
Love Desk: Wedding vows and AI, is this the future or is it a step too far?
Hot Topic: Judge, Jury & Executor
Is this you in your relationship? Tune in to see how this might be showing up in your relationship and what to do if you recognise it.
Question: "I'm struggling to balance my relationship with my work and personal life. I feel like whatever I do it's never good enough in both areas. What are some tips for maintaining a healthy work-life balance while still prioritizing my relationship?"
Some great ideas on how to tackle this and master the art of self-reflection, action and boundaries.
The girls are celebrating the dark days are over, and owning up to their shit. They are always here to support you!
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Wednesday Dec 06, 2023
Wednesday Dec 06, 2023
Anna forgets that moving countries is not an easy affair. Just like having babies and other life-changing events, she has forgotten about past experiences. The girls had a sliding doors moment both 'Lasses' were almost in Budapest at the same time.
One day they will be in the same place, at the same time and record an in-person podcast.
Love Desk: Tinder now allows friends and families to recommend matches for you ... is this a step too far? Time will tell, the girls have some reservations.
Hot Topic: Keeping sex alive in a long-term relationship.
Anna's trying to switch to a different hot topic but Sara is keeping her honest and on track (not an easy job ...)
The shift from sex to no sex is like a train that speeds past the station without realising it has happened. In long-term relationships, it's a hot topic indeed, as we get distracted by life and often move out of the habit of regular sex which is difficult to reverse and even trickier to discuss with our significant others.
Question: "My girlfriend and I have different values and beliefs. Is it possible to still have a good relationship without compromising who we are and giving up on our values?"
Yes, maybe, maybe not ..... values are difficult to gauge when considering the future impact. Some values may feel like a non-negotiable, for example, the decision to have children, but others may move and shift over time. You might start to see your partner's perspective more and your values may become more aligned over time.
Great chat as ever, Sara's feeling calm and confident about her trip to Budapest. She's element ready with a new winter coat and Anna's giving her top tips on the local spirits. Let's hope she makes it back for the next recording.
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Anna's started paddling in Athens, so far she's not attracted the emergency or law enforcement officers but she had had men offering to carry her board. We are saying nothing! Sara's been enjoying pick and mix at the cinema and her love affair with food.
Love Desk: It's a food-related love desk .... tune in to find out what and why.
Hot Topic: How does spitefulness show up in your relationship?
Ouch, are you ready for this? There are more ways than you think to be spiteful in your relationship, they might not be obvious to start with but listen further to see if you are being unconsciously spiteful.
Question: "My partner and I seem to disagree on everything lately. How can we work through conflicts and disagreements in a healthy way, and prevent them from causing bigger problems down the road?"
The thing you think you're arguing about is never the thing. It's harder often to get below the daily arguments and bickering to uncover what's happening.
Raising even more awareness this week, lots to explore and work on for all of us.
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Sunday Nov 05, 2023
Sunday Nov 05, 2023
External forces are trying to interfere with the podcast, this will give Anna a run for her money when it comes to editing. Sara is waving lyrical about her new kitchen gadget, we will never get her out of the kitchen.
Love Desk: Dating across the salary divide! One influencer has caused a stir by stating she will not date below her salary.
Hot Topic: How would guaranteed success in your relationship impact what you do?
Would this have a positive or negative impact on your relationship? Would it ease the doubt or would you slack off and not put the effort in you need to?
Question: "I've been feeling really insecure in my relationship lately. How can I identify and address my own insecurities, and what can I do to improve my relationship as a result?"
Anna is fired up and ready to go after today's pod recording. Sara's off to reset and Anna is entertaining visitors from Canada. Will they get her firey side and will Google Translate let her down .....
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Sara's been to the hairdresser and is exercising her date night right to take her hair out. Anna's been globe-totting off to Rome and enjoying Chianti and house wine! New lessons in life this week.
Love Desk: Mercury and Retrograde are causing a shadow across relationships right now, listen in to get some tips on what to do to avoid this disruption. The storm won't last forever, you can always make it sunny even when it's raining!
Hot Topic: Common causes of low confidence in relationships
Confidence can show up in many ways. It may be your different levels of confidence or the confidence you feel in the future of your relationship together. Tough love won't cut it here. It's to start caring about your relationship and your partner.
Question: "I've been with my partner for a while now, but I'm starting to feel like the spark is gone. What should I do if I feel like I'm losing interest in my partner, and how can I reignite that passion in our relationship?"
So common, that your relationship will not sustain the highs of the honeymoon. It simply isn't possible. It's time to put some new goggles on are see your partner in a new light. We are overstimulated in society and this is causing us all to become disconnected, from ourselves and our partners. It is possible to take steps to start to lean back into your love again.
Good conversation from the girls today. Sara's dumbfounded that they still haven't met, and that Anna is now in a hairs whisper from Sara. That in-person pod recording is closer than you think!
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Saturday Oct 14, 2023
Saturday Oct 14, 2023
The girls are reconnecting again, as Sara has just landed back from a holiday and sunshine in Mexico. Anna's taken a one-way flight to Greece as she starts a new adventure.
Love Desk: Relationships with siblings, should you be close to your brothers and sisters.
Hot Topic: Breaking the negative cycle and creating new patterns
Are you living by an old story, how true is the narrative that's spinning around your head? First, you need to take a step back and view your life as a movie, what would stand out most for you?
Question: "I'm struggling with intimacy in my relationship. What are some ways to build trust and improve intimacy, and how can I start implementing those strategies in my own relationship?"
Is this something that is impacting your relationship, take a listen as the girls explore this topic.
The girls are almost in the same timezone, it will soon be time for Podcast with wine!
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Tuesday Oct 03, 2023
Tuesday Oct 03, 2023
Anna has been out on the water and halfway up a mast making new friends. The girls are now comparing their fear of heights. It highlights a different definition of fun for sure!
Love Desk: 9 lessons as a teenager you have to learn about love. Oh my is it too late for these lessons ...... the girls say it's never too late!
Hot Topic: The beauty of imperfections
Do you accept your partner fully? Do you see the beauty of the things that weren't on your wish list?
We all change over time, whether it's health changes or general weathering over are you prepared to accept the tur sickness and health vows or your true commitment to your relationship?
Question: "I just got caught having an affair, how do I save my marriage? Divorce hasn't been mentioned yet."
A Short question but there is more to this than the few words presented here. This listener made a choice and now is the time to work out the next steps to fully recover if this is your favoured option. The girls have some great advice, they aren't holding back today!
Sara is off on a last-minute trip to Mexico just as Anna is striping back, her apartment that is, she is getting ready for her new life in Athens.
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
Thursday Sep 21, 2023
Anna is feeling Zen-like and tipping off the edge all at the same time.
Love Desk: Impact of Sex on your health, you are so gonna want to hear this. Maybe then you'll be ready to get your jiggy one.
Hot Topic: Where has all the fun gone
Have you hit a disillusionment phase or lost the art of fun with your significant other? This one is for you. Life is a mix of the daily grind, responsibilites but, it also needs fun to make it work and flow.
It's important to understand your version of fun and do more of it. It's your unique connection point.
Question: "I've been in a long-term relationship for almost 13 years. I've been waiting for a proposal for over a decade. We have three kids and they ask why are you and Dad married. I'm in my thirties and all our friends are married, whenever I mention it he doesn't seem interested at all. It doesn't sit right with me that we aren't married. Should I give up hope?"
Sara's protesting about whose choice this is, marriage is a big deal!! This is quickly followed by a good debate on marriage when is the right time and whether it is always a forgone conclusion.
A great session, as ever, with the girls this week.
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Monday Sep 04, 2023
Monday Sep 04, 2023
Spring and fall had a baby in Jersey and the summer still hasn't made an appearance. Anna's been back on the board and now she's feeling the pain.
Love Desk: Age and being introverted - Is there a connection? Tune in to find out what's popping at the love desk today.
Hot Topic: Redefine your happy ever after.
The girls debate this topic with some slightly different views but one thing they do agree upon is relationships take work but they should be a place where you feel safe and become your space of happiness.
has Anna found her happy ever after?
Question: "I'm at the end of my tether, my wife is not submissive and she continues to disobey me. What should be my next move?"
A tough one this week, lots of work to do to explore this for the listener.
lots to consider this week as you shape your life and your relationship future.
Till next time!
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com