Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Relationship podcast, tackling those often off-limit subjects in relationships. Helping to keep you sane at a time when you feel anything but! Some light relief and hopefully a few golden nuggets to help you make it through the week without resorting to wine via an intravenous drip!
Episodes
Thursday Oct 20, 2022
115. If you can love that strongly, you can love again
Thursday Oct 20, 2022
Thursday Oct 20, 2022
It's world mental health day and, the girls are feeling slightly off today, quite ironic really! It's been a week! If you are travelling along this same path we hear you.
Love Desk - Research time! Just for laughs ..... oh, tell me more!
Hot Topic - If you can love that strongly, you can love again
It's time for some grace, let go of the shame and judgement. It's a tricky time ..... roll out the kindness and compassion. It starts with you and, you are in choice and charge. Oh, it feels like a sad day! But it's time to tune into what you are worth. You are pretty awesome!
Question of the week - The longest question this but the essence is ... "I'm married, I've been on a journey, I did some meditation. I asked my husband to join but he declined. I sated a new journey and he joined me, this has taken over and he's posted online that his friends and family don't support him. What do I do?"
A gutting crush that I don't own anyone!
The girls enjoyed their warm pumpkin pie this week and hope you did too!
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Oct 13, 2022
114. The company you keep
Thursday Oct 13, 2022
Thursday Oct 13, 2022
Anna loves a new style of jeans and has been shopping, good to know what you like in clothes and in men. Sara's back to yoga and enjoying a delicious snooze along the way.
Love Desk - A slightly confusing formula called TEAM .... see what you think... and get in touch to tell us if you got it.
Hot Topic - The company you keep. What do the girls mean? There's more than one way of exploring this topic. Listen in to see where the girls go with this one.
Question of the week - "My husband resents my family, he thinks my siblings are always asking for too many favours and my mom is always asking me to take her shopping and for little trips out. I'm really torn between my family and my relationship. What should I do?"
As autumn arises Sara is in full feeding mode, she thinks she's a squirrel storing things up for the winter.
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Oct 06, 2022
113. When to seek help in your relationship?
Thursday Oct 06, 2022
Thursday Oct 06, 2022
Monday's recording came around too quickly and the girls aren't quite ready for today's recording, let's hope they can pull it out of the bag! It's October, Anna is still paddling in more ways than one. Sara is welcoming winter as she switches to winter food and lays down some fat!
Love Desk - It's research time ..... "the reason we stay in unhappy & unhappy relationships"
The reason why has shocked the love coaches as the research findings aren't what they expected.
Hot Topic - When to seek help in your relationship?
Always, never, at the start! All of the above. Should we take a lesson from the younger generation who seem to be more open to talking about their issues? Fear and shame often get in the way when it comes to seeking help. There is no shame in talking to others, but, choose your audience carefully! When seeking help you are always in choice and in control of when you start, stop and how support is going. The average person waits 6 years, it's heartbreaking, don't be that person.
Question of the week - "I really want a baby, my partner agrees but keeps moving the timescales saying they aren't ready. I can't believe they are being so selfish when they know how much this means to me."
This feels like Sara's private thearpy session, but back to the question! It is time to work through those fears and understand what's really happening.
As we approach Halloween, the girls are feeling the winder blues apporaching. There is no hope unless they slip into boozy hour recording!
Or do we need Sara to really poorly to get some good quality recoding from the girsl?
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 29, 2022
112. Don’t take your partner’s oxygen away
Thursday Sep 29, 2022
Thursday Sep 29, 2022
The planets are sending a lot of changes the girl's way. Just when they think they have their shit together, the universe has other plans! Anna's shining bright as she steps a toe back into clinical practice.
Sara was off to the UK at the last moment to ship her daughter back to uni. Time is flying by as she heads back for her second year.
Mourning has officially ended as the UK lays their queen to rest. By Queenie, you've served us well.
Love Desk - Couple married for 30 years, 7 kids, no arguments and no raised voices ...... say what!!! I need to know more ......
Hot Topic - Don't take your partner's oxygen away.
There's some illogical logic in the hot topic this week. Wise words are shared about how to unpick this for yourself in your relationship. Hands up if you recognise any of the behaviour highlighted by the girls.
Sara delivers a big blow with a killer question to ask yourself this week. They are spicy and leave us contemplating and reflecting.
Question of the week - "I'm estranged from my sibling, I feel deep shame. Should I try to speak to them again?"
1 in 3 people are in this situation. Family dynamics have a strong pull and easily slip into the same family roles. It's a complicated business. So many people feel shame when they are detached from their family, it triggers feelings of self-judgement and negative self-talk.
If you feel like you blinked and missed September, you are not alone!
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Sunday Sep 25, 2022
111. Is there room for mistakes in your relationship?
Sunday Sep 25, 2022
Sunday Sep 25, 2022
Labour day is over, schools are back and the routine begins. Sara has said news as the Queen has passed away. The country is in a state of mourning.
She worked right up to the end and was a great head of the country. Changes are ahead as the new King is sworn in. It's sad to see the end of her reign.
Love Desk - Sharing a beautiful quote from the Queen, will touch your heart.
Hot Topic - Is there room for mistakes in your relationship?
Do you give your partner some leeway or are they expected to be perfect? This feels uber-heavy to have to be perfect! So many relationships have high expectations of their partner. There's a flashback to confession time, how much time would you spend in your relationship confession box ........ not sure I want to think about this!
Can you show grace to your partner, do you judge? How could you be free from this?
Question of the week - "I feel lost and alone, my husband just doesn't understand. He asks me what's wrong and then dismisses my answer. I'm no longer attracted to him because he dismisses me. He's a good dad and a hard-working man but we need help. He's refusing to go to therapy. I'm stuck!!"
Both parties are feeling down in this situation, their needs aren't being met and they are struggling to communicate and share how they are feeling. Who hasn't been in this situation?
There are some great tips on how to explore needs in your relationship. Get ready to take notes! It's common to feel disconnected and not on the same page as your partner.
There's a vibe of change in the air! This is no different for our coaches as they enter into new chapters, more will be shared later!
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Friday Sep 16, 2022
Friday Sep 16, 2022
It's Labour day in Canada and the fighter jets are out. Jersey will soon be hot on the heels as they have their international air show too. Whoop whoop to the fighter jets and red arrows this week.
Love Desk - it's a rollercoaster ride on the love desk and it's all about sex! Warning alert! There is good and bad news this week.
Hot Topic - How long should you be in a relationship before meeting parents or friends?
Or kids Anna raises, that's a little more complicated! The girls have some wise words as they explore this topic, it might not be quite what you wanna her though! Doh!
Question of the week - "No matter what I say or do it never seems to be right for my partner, please help!"
A short question but it's got some depth. It's never about the thing! There are some layers to move through and is it time to open up with honesty. Anna gets feisty with this, she needs Sara to talk her down from the ledge.
Action-packed recording, the planes are out, there are deliveries, dark clouds, and sirens all set to sabotage the recording but the girls pull it off.
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Friday Sep 09, 2022
109. Are date nights all that?
Friday Sep 09, 2022
Friday Sep 09, 2022
Welcome to September! It's been an amazing summer ... for a lot of us, but Anna's feeling a little gloomy. Sara is final COVID free and has been released back into the world. Giddy moments! The girls take a side step .and discuss the optimum number of days for visitors to stay.... tune in to find out what the girls think.
Love Desk - What's the one ingredient you need for a happy relationship? Tell me quickly! Listen right away to find out. The secret is out.
Hot Topic - Are date night all that?
Have we overly popularised date nights or, are they an essential part of a relationship? Do you have different needs from those of your partner? Sara's worried, her other half has been in touch with Anna secretly about his differences on the side.
Question of the week - "We have three children the first two have been through college and the last one is about to go, I'm terrified that I don't have anything in common with my wife. What should I do?"
It's back to college and uni time. Are you struggling with empty nest syndrome? Not everyone realises they are struggling with this. It can creep up on you before you know it. You might be in turmoil and not realise why. It's a great time for exploration, embrace yourself and each other. Do the work and see where it takes you.
Fired up and spice start to the week. Back to the real world for Sara, bring on Yoga Time! Anna's embracing the seasonal funk and marinating away.
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
108. The most overrated thing about relationships
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
Sara is struggling she's been hit by the Covid bug. Chris Martin has a lot to answer for inviting all those people to his concert! She's now sleep-deprived but still recording, the struggle is real. Anna's gotta make it happen this week. Will the girls get into their podcast groove?
Love Desk - How badly we behave on data apps!
Even Covid can't stop Sara from bringing the relationship love news. It's an eye-opener for sure, the love desk kicks things off this week with an overriding message to behave!
Hot Topic - The most overrated thing about relationships
Oh, where should we start? Anna's disappointed Sara, where is her famous line "you complete me, pass me my matching tracksuit". Tom Cruise said so! It must be true. There are some shocking revelations from Anna and her man ....... tune in to find out.
Sara comes crashing down and she's not sure she can cope with it all.
Question of the week - "I'm a guy in my late 30s I've just quick my job to start my own business, my parent and friends are pressuring me to get married but I don't feel ready yet. I feel like a loser, what should I do!"
The girls get super curious about this question and share some alternative views and approaches. It's so much easier looking in.
There's too much fun and frivolously behaviour for Sara's poorliness! She's off for a laydown.
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Thursday Aug 25, 2022
107. Advice you would give your younger self about finding the right partner!
Thursday Aug 25, 2022
Thursday Aug 25, 2022
Cheers to the week! Anna is struggling from paddleboarding and has been in trouble again, this time with a different set of officers! Sara is back from rocky out to Coldplay at Wembly Arena. With a cameo from Craig David. The girls were living it up this week.
Love Desk - The age you are going to meet the love of your life. There's an amazing revelation with this one!!
Hot Topic - Advice you would give your younger self about finding the right partner! The girls have got lots to say on this topic, how many words of advice can you get in one podcast?
Question of the week - "My husband and I broke up over a year ago but somehow we got back together. During that time he gifted a designer bag for $2,768 to the woman and took her to a Michelin star restaurant, I've just found out about it and I'm furious! I told him to get out of my life, he swears nothing happened between them and said she's been good to him. Did I overact? We've got a 2-month-old baby."
Wow, where do they start this week? Some very precise info in this question and a whole host of stuff to this question.
Mic drop - We don't own other people .....
Anna is fired up and Sara has a date with her PJs.
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
Friday Aug 19, 2022
106. On down days dial-up turns up communication & compassion
Friday Aug 19, 2022
Friday Aug 19, 2022
The girls are sweating, eating, and allergies are kicking off, but they are showing up! Anna's trying to convince us that it's the end of summer but Sara ain't having any of it! Mindset shift needed Miss Anna.
Love Desk - Time to save your relationship with "2,2,2" ...... take a listen to the magic formula.
Hot Topic - On down days dial-up turns up communication and compassion. This is difficult to do especially during tough times. We are all made of many layers, it's normal to find this hard. Find out what the girls think about approaching this.
Question of the week - "We are in an open relationship how worried should we be about Monkey Pox?" Lots of wise words from the Doctor in the house! This question does go deeper as the girls explore an open relationship contract. Take a listen.
That's it for another week, the first pod of their three-year journey for Geordie Lass & Doc Sass, here's to the year ahead!
Till next time!
Get in touch!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com
Website: www.coachdocanna.com